I can’t even begin to tell you how many triggers writing “Are you enough?” has brought up for me.
I wanted to write in great big letters You Are Enough!
I wanted to write that you are always enough.
But, the most important thing is for you to believe you are enough.
So, I ask you this question… Are you enough?
I don’t want you to ask anyone else. Ask yourself.
Here are some beliefs I’ve dealt with in the past…
I wasn’t a good enough student at school
I wasn’t good enough at sports to be chosen first
I wasn’t pretty enough, clever enough, tall enough…
I wasn’t a good enough wife
I’m not a good enough parent, daughter, sister, friend…
I believed all of those things at one time.
Then I realized I didn’t need my teachers to tell me I was good enough, or my ex-husband or even my family.
The only person I need to believe I am good enough is me.
The only person who needs to believe you are enough is you!
Decide who you want to be and be that person, then you can answer, Yes, I Am Good Enough.
Am I a perfect parent? No, absolutely not, but I am most definitely good enough. I’m a really good parent.
Am I the best businesswoman in the world? Nope, not even close but I am good enough to create a business I absolutely love and be well rewarded.
You get where I’m going, don’t you?
I can tell you that you’re good enough till the cows come home (I don’t actually own any cows). My point is, that unless you believe you are enough, the words are meaningless.
Affirmation: I am clear about the person I want to be and how I want to show up. I focus on being this person and I am enough.
What makes you good enough?
Mindful moment: Take some time with a nice drink of your choice today and focus on all the things that make you good enough.
What came up for you? Did this post throw up any thoughts or emotions?
Please let me know in the comments.
I send this message to you today with so much love and wishes for a wonderful week.
Wendy xxx
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I love this Wendy. I resonate with all your ‘not good enough’ thoughts. I had them too. Nothing has changed about me at my core, only my mindset and how I see myself.